Desperate renters go to extremes
Rising rents and fewer available apartments have pushed some renters to try bartering for their half of the bill. Among the offers: cleaning, cooking, massage . . . even sex.
When a $400 rent hike forced massage therapist Jyoti Param back into the rental market, she knew she had to get creative. Unable to afford the quickly escalating rents in her Bellevue, Wash., neighborhood, Param placed an ad on Craigslist offering massage services, yoga instruction and vegetarian cooking in exchange for a room with a private bath.
"I had to find someplace," she says. "And I wanted (a landlord) who would appreciate me for who I am."
A tight rental market and rising rents in many areas of the country are forcing prospective tenants to turn to some extreme tactics to find a place to live. Dan Ross, manager of national roommate-matching service Roommate Express, says that the number of people offering to barter for rent has gone up dramatically in the past year and a half.
Some are offering cooking, cleaning, personal errands or even sex in exchange for free or discounted rent.
Rentals hard to come by
Behind the trend -- racy as it sounds -- lie some basic economics. Nationwide, apartment occupancy climbed more than 1% to an average of 95.6% in the first quarter of 2006, according to M/PF YieldStar. Some areas in Florida, California and New Jersey have even surpassed those levels. Rents, meanwhile, have jumped 4% from the same time last year. The situation got even more serious in May when the Labor Department said housing rental costs rose an additional 0.6%, the largest jump since August 1990.
Economists blame it on the overheated housing market. Many would-be homebuyers are being forced to remain in rental housing, tightening supply and prompting landlords to raise prices.
For Jenny Foster, a San Francisco-based teacher and part-time student, the hot rental market has pushed most one-bedroom apartments out of her reach. She recently penned an essay, "Why I should be your next roommate," and posted it online with an offer of $950 in rent for a private room and bath. She also included a link to her MySpace.com home page, with pictures, hobbies and other personal information. "Anytime you post an ad, it's one-part personal ad and one-part job application," she says. The amount of response, she believes, hinges on an ad's creativity, or "people just don't read it."
Foster has received at least a dozen offers -- of all kinds -- but says she finally found a place in the Mission District to share with two roommates for $800 a month, far below the $1,420 average in San Francisco, according to M/PF.
How much for a couch?
To save on rent, others are slicing up apartments in even smaller bits, renting out couches, garages and even half of a bedroom. Rodney Peterson, a 39-year-old personal assistant looking for a place to live in Los Angeles, says he recently looked at an unventilated attic that was renting for $190 a week on the city's west side.
Peterson is now offering his services as a personal assistant, pet sitter and legal assistant in exchange for discounted or free rent, though he has yet to find a taker.
Ross, of Roommate Express, says more and more women are offering to clean, cook and do laundry in exchange for free or discounted rent. Instead of a roommate, they call themselves "roommaids."
And then there are those who are taking an even more, ahem, old-fashioned tactic by offering sexual favors in exchange for rent.
Despite the questionable legality and inherent safety risks of any such arrangement, these ads can be found on Craigslist and other sites. But Craigslist spokeswoman Susan MacTavish Best says they're often short-lived. "We have found that our 10 million users are very effective when it comes to ensuring that inappropriate ads are taken down," she says. "You'll typically find that such ads are on the site for a very, very short period of time."
And while this may sound like the ultimate male fantasy, experts warn that many of these ads are a ploy to draw people into a financial scam. "Chances are, the woman offering these services … engages in risky behavior, and you may end up paying more than you bargained for," says Boston-based personal-security expert Robert L. Siciliano.
None of the individuals contacted with these ads on Craigslist responded to this reporter's request for an interview.
Homeowners, needy renters find each other
Luckily for renters, there seem to be more homeowners willing to let out rooms, as payments on many adjustable-rate mortgages have bumped up.
"You've got a payment that bumps from $1,500 to $2,400 a month," says Ross. "(Homeowners) don't plan for that, and they start looking for a roommate to resolve the problem."
When Param was exploring her options, she also looked into a "home-share" in her area. The program matches prospective tenants with elderly homeowners who are looking for financial assistance or services, such as cooking, cleaning and transportation.
Many cities now offer nonprofit home-sharing programs, which often are coordinated through their senior services department or can be found through the National Shared Housing Resource Center. Under the Seattle program, an older homeowner who needs help paying higher property taxes or handling a mortgage after a spouse has passed away can register for a carefully screened roommate who will pay a set fee of $450 a month with utilities included, says Michael Rolls, manager of the Home Sharing Program in Seattle. Prospective renters also can exchange 15 hours per week of assistance for free room and board.
The program has become so popular, Rolls says, that prospective tenants now outnumber landlords more than 2-to-1. "There's a lot more people needing housing," he says.
The high cost of 'free' rent
Tim and Bella Combs of Ohio decided to try out a similar situation, offering up their cleaning and handyman work, as well as other services, in exchange for room and board in Los Angeles.
"We think it's a waste of our time to buy a place or rent and put that money into someone else's pocket," says Tim Combs.
While the move saved the couple more than a thousand dollars in the past month, it's cost them more of their time than they bargained for.
Although the Combses negotiated free rent in exchange for 20 hours of work each, they have wound up working far more hours. Indeed, calculated at a modest $8 an hour for the work performed, Tim Combs says they are paying near $1,325 for the room, about the same as he would pay for a one-bedroom apartment.
"The landlord doesn't see us as anything more than slaves," he says. They are now looking for another owner to swap with, but also are considering leasing an apartment while they build their real-estate training business in Los Angeles.
The Combses' experience illustrates the risks involved in swapping services for rent, both to the tenant's personal and financial security.
First, says San Francisco attorney Jennifer Redmond, who has worked on property-management issues, swapping puts the tenant in the position of potentially being evicted on short notice. "You may not be classified as a tenant under local tenant-protection laws," she says.
There's also a personal-security risk when your landlord, employer and roommate merge, says security expert Siciliano. "You are giving up a sense of control, and as a result you may be submitting yourself to someone who may, in fact, enjoy control. The more you agree to, the more they are going to ask for."
Roommate Express' Ross estimates that between 30% and 40% of the men he screens for female roommates are really looking for relationships. "They are looking for a wife," he says, without going through the hassle of dating and looking for a relationship.
Indeed, while Param's ad for therapeutic massage drew several responses, some seemed less than wholesome. One man seemed reasonable, "but he kept mentioning that he was divorced and had a hot tub," she recalls. She thinks she has now found her housing match in an elderly woman who has osteoarthritis and needs physical therapy.
How to protect yourself
Both parties in any bartering arrangement should check each other out thoroughly, performing background checks with a Social Security number, Siciliano says.
Each person also should draw up a contract with what is expected of the other in writing. If one person doesn't receive what they were promised, the document could be of help in small claims court or with a labor commission, Redmond says.
Finally, don't dismiss more-traditional ways to pay the rent. Banking on finding a huge market for your services can be costly.
Los Angeles renter Peterson is now renting hotel rooms by the week while he hopes someone bites on his personal-services-for-rent ads. "Rent is not cheap in Los Angeles. I've had a few calls, but nothing that has come through," he says. "I'm looking at all sorts of options."
5 ways to protect yourself when bartering for rent:
- Check proper identification and conduct a background check on the person offering you room and board. If they don't agree to it, it's a red flag that an individual may have other motives in leasing to you.
- Get an agreement in writing of the duties you will perform and the housing and services you will be provided, Redmond advises. A document like this could help in small-claims court or at a labor commission, should you have a conflict with the landlord.
- Set personal boundaries for both parties. Define what is and what is not acceptable behavior. Siciliano suggests implementing a three-strikes rule, with the renter moving out after the third infraction.
- Keep track of how much work you are putting in for rent. If it goes over the specified amount, talk to your landlord and try to renegotiate. If the value of the work you do for room and board falls under the minimum wage on an hourly basis, you may be owed money, Redmond says. If you're not sure, ask a labor commissioner.
- Lastly, assess your fitness for the position, Siciliano says. If you are not up to par emotionally, or mentally, it's best not to take on an assignment like this. "You have to know yourself and what your boundaries are," Siciliano says. If not, he says, "You have a great chance of getting yourself into a potentially dangerous situation."